Nanfa Barko
A person cannot be a 'failure'. Their attempt, the try may be called a failure. But how can a person be a failure? What kind of culture are we nurturing when living, breathing human beings with unlimited possibilities, untapped potential and a life in front of them are thrown into a non-existent abyss of despair and hopelessness, when we label them failure? When you tell someone they can't do anything in life, reject their possibilities, don't you in a sense kill them? For what is left of a human when he's nothing to aspire for?
Criticize the effort, highlight the flaws in their behavior, thinking, action, strategy, hell even in their character but for the love of humanity, don't call a person a failure.
If you can neither encourage someone nor offer constructive, helpful criticism then shut up and move on. Let them live. You're not needed there. Can't heal? Don't harm! It must be tough to not ridicule, humiliate and degrade another human being who at least attempted something but rein your wild words. When our brethren fall, the last thing they need is another wound.
Criticize the effort, highlight the flaws in their behavior, thinking, action, strategy, hell even in their character but for the love of humanity, don't call a person a failure.
If you can neither encourage someone nor offer constructive, helpful criticism then shut up and move on. Let them live. You're not needed there. Can't heal? Don't harm! It must be tough to not ridicule, humiliate and degrade another human being who at least attempted something but rein your wild words. When our brethren fall, the last thing they need is another wound.
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